I have confession to make…I am a geek. I geek out at Quantum Physics like string theory and I actually enjoy reading scientific papers about the brain. Now that I have confessed that, I want to talk about something that I have been researching lately, Rhythm.
What is Rhythm and why is it important?
Our human brains are wired for seasons and rhythms of life. We need routine so that information goes from our working memory into the automated part of our brain that doesn’t have think about every little thing. We live in a world that is governed by time, seasons, moon and sun; events help guide us through the passage of time. They are like sign posts showing us through the path of life. What happens when you disrupt Rhythm, when you can’t mark time like you normally would? Anyone feel like we have been living through a social experiment over the last 18 + months? All the season of life have been disrupted, we haven’t been able to have birthday parties, weddings, swimming lessons, go to church, go to Christmas concerts or have graduations. Everything that we look forward to with anticipation, the things that are milestones in life, have shifted, morphed and been taken away. When you lose these anchor points it is disrupting to say the least.
Disruption, what is it good for?
How do we respond to this shaking and shifting that has happened? I hope for you it has given you time to reflect on things that are important. Have you been able to carve out a new Rhythm in the chaos of the last couple of years? I know for myself, I have actually enjoyed having time to think, time with the family and time to be creative and be intentional about rest. These are what I want to take with me into the next season as we emerge out of lockdown. There has been a shift for sure, in America they are calling it The Great Resignation, as people are resigning from their jobs in the millions. A record number of people are starting their own business, using their creativity to do something they love and have a better balance in life.
Finding your groove
I love Jazz music, listening to a Jazz band that are in the groove is so thrilling. The musicians are able to anticipate where the music is going and it flows so naturally, to hear that level of musicianship is amazing. When we find our groove in life things flow and it is easy. It doesn’t mean we don’t have to work hard, but if you are loving life, does it feel life work? Have you found your sweet spot, your groove? If not, maybe you need to hit DELETE on a few things that are working for you. When everything is in right balance it is like all the strings in our cells (string theory) resonate at a sympathetic resonance (yeah, I just made that up) and things start to work.
Be intentional
Take a couple of minutes, find a good thinking spot, and make a list of things you want to leave behind and the things that you want to take with you into the new season. Be intentional about carving out the life you want to live. We get one shot at life and you are the only one who gets to experience your life. What changes do you need to make to live your best life and bring more joy into it?
